i dont get my woman...

Ok. I'm gonna have to rant. I need to get this OUT of my system.

Me and my girl been together for a little over a year now. We love each other to death and you can tell by the way we argue and what we argue about. You know? Arguing isn't the thing that I don't get though. Its what we argue about that I don't get.

She always tells me "I don't get to see my friends, blah blah blah," and I'm like ... okay, so go see your friends then ... no ones stopping you. Then, she doesn't do it for a LONG time. Finally, she'll decide to go see a friend of hers, BUT before she does, she calls me in the morning and says shes sick and all and she doesn't want to go to work. I'm like, well, why don't you come over here for a while? You know. Just tryin to comfort her and all. Last time she was sick, it seemed like she only got better cause I came around to comfort her when I got the chance.

Well, anyway, she tells me that she doesn't want to come over cause her grandma says she's not allowed to see anyone cause she's sick. Understandable. She goes to work, I go to my friends sisters wedding (I was lookin SHARP as hell too) and the day was great. We even went to her work and got a couple laughs of me and dean in a suit (something you would never think you'd see us wear), anyway ... I ask her if she wants a ride home after work, and she says no, she'll just call her aunt (like she does when I can't pick her up). Anyway, at about 10:00 after all the partying and stuff for the wedding, I decided to call her. She got off at 8:00 btw. Then, her grandma tells me she is chillin with Courtney. So, yeah, of course, I'm kinda mad cause she pretty much lied to me. No biggie, right? Wrong. I try to explain myself (you know how girls like that) and how I felt and all she could come up with was that I'm jealous. WHAT IN SAM HELL DO I HAVE TO BE JEALOUS ABOUT?! Anyway, now she's pissed at me and I'm the jerk that does everything wrong. Strange turn of events.

Btw, I'm 20 and she's 18. I know someones bound to ask.

Oh, another thing. Why is it that when I get out the shower, and put on some cologne, she'll call me and ask me to come over. Then when I come over (she KNOWS that I just got out the shower) she'll get mad cause I'm wearing cologne and says something like "Oh, who were you just seeing that was so important that you had to wear cologne?" WHAT THE HELL?! I guess she doesn't realize that that person that's so important is HER.

Oh yeah, before I forget. Heres a funny story about what happened with her (it's endless I tell ya). When I was in school and she was in school, we had the same lunch (off campus) and we'd chill with this female named Silver. Silver was cool. For some reason, Rachel (my gf) was jealous of her. Silver is a lesbian btw .... and rachel KNEW THAT!!! Anyway, Rachel comes up to me one day and pukes up this wack story about how some chicks came up to her in school and showed her some pictures of me and Silver naked in bed together or some kind of crap. That's funny cause me and Silver NEVER chilled outside of lunchtime at school so there is NO WAY that picture could exsist. NOT TO MENTION SILVER IS A LESBIAN! Anyway, now everytime I mention that I don't see how the pictures could of been real, she get way, WAY pissed off and asks me if I'm calling her a liar. Yes ... but not directly.

It seems like females always want you to tell them how you feel. But when you do, they don't even listen.

I JUST DON'T GET IT!!!!!!!

Anyone else go through anything like this?

I think something similar happened to Axiom, an old member, and I think like the girls father chased him of the farm with a shotgun or something like that.

:-p

Well anyways, like I know this may be nothing major to you, but there is this girl that likes me that I'm frist with, isn't even dating me and in school I used to sit with her at lunch and it's like now I sit in a different cafeteria with my friends. (Male no less.) And shes like crying because I'm 'disowning' her. I mean come on, what the ****? I really don't get it... Oh well, what are ya gonna do?

Originally posted by msz070
Oh well, what are ya gonna do?

I can live with it. I think its funny even though it pisses me off. I just needed to rant.

Yeah, girls can be a bit...............................silly sometimes. :x

silly isn't the word for it. :D

there's a point where you "know" if a relationship is going to work or not. you may not admit to yourself that you know, and some people even convince themselves otherwise, but you still know. she seems to have some issues, and if its like this now its not going to get better.

you've already acknowledged that she's lied to you, gets really jealous when nothing is going on, and thinks you're jealous when she's lied to you. is there an actual reason you're trying to continue this relationship? step back and think about it, removing your feelings from the equation for a second, and figure out what you're really in this for. if you don't have a good answer that should be an indication.

chris

Figs post.

Don't get me wrong, I love her. It's not that I'm majorly pissed at her for all of it. It's just that I don't understand it. Usually when we fight, it's just bull **** and we both know were just messing with each other. Cause you know ... arguing can be fun somtimes (or maybe that's just me).

I just don't understand her sometimes. We get along fine 90% of the time, so breaking up with her cause she gets jealous for nothing would be kinda dumb. I can understand why she gets jealous so easy. She always tells me how she doesn't wanna get hurt and all, and I've hurt her once before, so I'm guessing that she does that cause her fear of getting hurt. I just wish she would realize that doing this kind of crap is gonna end up hurting her in the end anyways.

I didn't even think that she's probably a major bitch right now is cause she is pregnant.

Yeah, that is an important thing you left out. (From what I've heard) pregnant women are 90% nasty. Emotional-wise, it's like a 9-month period. Cranky, bitchy, nasty. I've never dated a pregnant women, so I don't really know for sure, but I have friends who have/had pregnant wives/girlfriends, and I've heard many-a-story.

The last women that I dated that even attempted to chew my ass for any reason, legitimate or not, I booted to the door. I don't put up with that kind of s**t, for any reason. The girl I married and I have never had a real fight in 5+ years. The biggest fight we have ever had is what color to paint the bedroom...no joke at all.

If you care for this girl at all, you'll probably not want to get rid of her, and the whole "pregnant" thing is definitely a deciding factor on whether to stay with her or not. Well, that is if it's your kid or not. If not, I would not hesitate to turn my back to her. There is no reason for anybody to have to put up with daily ass-chewings.

Just be thankful you have a woman dude. Some of us don't and don't like to hear others complain when they have it better than us.