HELP! ahh im retarded or not..

is there a fast and easy to load ALL brushes? or must you go one by one?

I'm not sure if this will work, haven't tried because I don't want all my brushes to come up at ones.
I hope I know what you are talking about first.
Okey so you want that when you open the brushes library, you want it so that all the brushes are in there at ones instead of going trough different sections...
IF this is the case, I think this might work.
You use the windows search options, Start -> search, then you search for all ".abr".
You will find that photoshop will have all the brushes in different folders, now put them all in one folder and open that folder in photoshop.
But as I said, havn't tried it so I'm not 100% sure it will work, well okey I'm not 100% sure if this is what you are looking for either so... :P

I already have them all in one folder, thanks though

If you want to load all your brushes then just load then all one set at a time. Always use APPEND and not REPLACE that way you just keep adding to the list. Once you got them all listed then save those brushes with a new name.